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·Anchor of Hope Sober Homes Resident Contract·
Anchor of Hope Sober Homes (AOHSH) requires 100% abstinence from drugs and alcohol. I understand that by choosing to live in this home, I am agreeing to ALL rules and requirements of the program. I understand that I will need to adhere to any further requests and failure to do so will result in my choosing to leave AOHSH. I agree to report any activity from other residents for the well being of my community. I understand that if I choose to use and/or drink, I am choosing to leave AOHSH and the program. I understand that I will not argue or justify my use. I understand that if I choose to violate this policy, I will leave the program peacefully. I understand that any refusal or failed drug test is me choosing to immediately leave AOHSH. I further understand that any BAC over 0.00 is grounds for dismissal and my choosing to leave to AOHSH.
I understand that I am not a tenant and I do not pay rent. I am a Program participant and I pay program fees. I understand I am not entering into a lease agreement. I understand that Anchor of Hope Sober Homes provides housing as part of my participation in the Program as long as I choose to follow the rules outlined in this contract. I understand that if I chose not to follow the rules of this contract that I am subject to discharge from the program which includes the housing provided to me.
1. I understand that I am required to attend a minimum of 4 meetings a week. This includes: IOP, AA, NA, CA, Church, Bible study, Celebrate Recovery, etc. I understand this does not include meeting with my sponsor or individual therapy. I understand that failure to make 4 meetings within a week will result in a $20 fine and mandatory 5 meetings the following week. I further understand that if I do not make my mandatory 5 meetings, I am choosing to leave AOHSH. I understand that if I am unemployed and/or disabled and unable to work I will need to attend a minimum of 5 meetings a week after my first 30 days.
I understand that in order for a meeting to be counted I must check-in on the group chat. I understand that this should be done on my arrival at the meeting. Weekly meeting counts go from Sunday 6pm - Sunday 5:59pm. I understand that attending meetings is an important part of my recovery. I understand that it is highly suggested that I find a “Home Group” and get involved in the recovery community.
Connection is the opposite of addiction.
FINE: $20/minimum meetings not met
2. I understand that I am required to have a sponsor within the first 30 days of entering the Program. I understand that I should continually meet with my sponsor and work a program of Recovery. I understand that to not have a sponsor and working with them within 30 days or I am choosing to leave AOHSH.
3. I understand that there is Zero Tolerance for stealing. I understand that tape and sharpie will be provided for me to label my food. I understand that I am responsible for not taking something that is not labeled as mine. I understand that stealing and/or using food that is not mine, is me deciding to leave the program.
4. I understand there is zero tolerance for destruction of Anchor of Hope Sober Homes property. I understand this includes: Walls, doors, windows, and furniture. I understand that if I didn’t bring it, I shouldn’t break it. I further understand that if I destroy AOHSH property, I will be held financially responsible and will be deciding to leave AOHSH.
5. I understand that there is ZERO tolerance for physical and verbal assault. I understand that if I touch another resident in a threatening manner or I threaten anyone verbally, I am making the decision to leave AOHSH. I understand that depending on the severity of my actions, legal action may be taken as well.
6. I agree to keep personal belongings and personal space neat, clean, and orderly at all times.
I understand and agree to making my bed every morning – no exceptions. I also understand it is my responsibility to wash and fold my personal linens weekly. I understand the importance of and agree to showering every day (no exceptions).
I understand that part of recovery is creating new habits. I agree to complete the household chore(s) that are assigned to me in a complete and timely manner.
I understand that after using kitchen items that they need to be washed, dried, and put back. (Plates, silverware, pots, pans, etc.)
I understand that my personal space should reflect the life I am living - CLEAN.
I understand that my area and belongings are subject to search at any time without explanation.
I understand that if I have chronic issues with cleanliness and not doing chores, I will be given the chance to improve. I understand that if this is a continued issue with me, I will be making my own decision to exit AOHSH.
FINE: $10/unmade bed $10/missed chore
7. I understand that I am not to touch the thermostat at any time.
Thermostats should be set at 70 degrees during summer and 68 degrees during the colder months.
FINE: $30
8. I understand and agree to only use tobacco products in designated areas outside of the home (in most cases, this is in the back). I agree to dispose of my butts, filters, etc., in the proper, provided receptacles.
I understand that smoking and/or vaping in any AOHSH house is making a decision to leave AOHSH.
9. I understand that Suboxone treatment is a privilege and there is a specific protocol to be followed if I am prescribed Suboxone. I understand that Suboxone will be held by my house manager and distributed in weekly increments at the house meeting. I understand that my weekly allotment should be kept out of sight from other housemates. I understand that AOH holds the right to conduct counts at any time. I understand that if my count is off, I am choosing to leave AOHSH for abuse of a narcotic.
AOHSH highly encourages a MAXIMUM of 8mg a day. However, we will work with individuals to get to this dosage as needed.
10. I understand that my personal medications should be kept out of sight from other residents. I understand that this can be triggering to others and disrespectful. I commit to keeping my medications and dosages to myself and not discussing it with others.
11. I understand and agree to be out of bed by 10:30 am and remain so until 4:00 pm unless authorized by an AOHSH staff member. I understand if I have outside employment, I am exempt from this rule.
I understand that if I am unemployed and/or owe a balance I will need to leave the house in search of employment. I agree to turn in a minimum of 5 applications a day before returning home. I understand that if I am conducting a job search from home, I need to submit 10 applications a day.
I understand that if I am disabled and unemployed that I need to be up by 10:30 am and remain so until 3:00pm to remain active in my recovery. I also understand and agree to possible service work that may be assigned at the discretion of the AOHSH director.
I understand and agree to documenting all efforts made in obtaining employment. Including, but not limited to, dates, times, phone numbers, and managers names. I further understand that my job search is subject to verification by AOHSH staff.
12. In order to build accountability and positive structure, I understand the value of curfews.
I understand that residents at AOHSH must be in by 11:00pm Sunday – Thursday and 12:00 midnight Friday and Saturday.
I understand that curfew means inside the building, not just on the premises.
I understand that if I am late arriving I am subject to an immediate UA and a fine of $20 which is due immediately.
I understand that if I have a meeting or employment outside of this curfew, I must get it approved by the AOHSH director.
I understand that going to The Rogue Group is a privilege. That attendance must be approved by my house manager and that this privilege can be revoked if I am not actively following the rules of the house and/or working a program.
I understand that there is a “lights out” policy of 11:30 pm Sunday – Thursday. This is extended to 1:00am on Friday and Saturday. After “lights out” I agree to be quiet and respectful of others in the house. This restricts the use of the kitchen for preparing meals and laundry. This should all be done before curfew.
I understand that personal electronics must be used with personal headphones so as to not disturb fellow participants.
I understand that the curfew is lifted at 5:30am every morning.
FINE: $20/missed curfew
13. I understand that sexual displays of affection will not be tolerated in the home. I understand that my actions can be seen on camera.
FINE: $50
14. I understand that in order for someone to visit me AOHSH they must be sober. I understand that I need to inform my house manager/Director of any visitor(s) using the group chat.
I understand that house guests are NOT allowed in ANY bedrooms. NO women in the men’s bedroom. NO men in the women’s bedrooms. I further understand that ANYONE of romantic involvement or interest are not allowed in bedrooms.
Guests are allowed to use the restroom.
I understand that guests/visitors should be off the property ONE HOUR prior to curfew. 10pm Sunday - Thursday and 11pm Friday - Saturday.
I commit to being mindful and respectful of my guests' length of stay. I understand this is a shared home and will keep visits to a maximum of 2 hours.
I understand that continual disregard for this rule will result in me leaving AOHSH.
FINE: $20/guest overstay and/or past curfew
15. I understand the importance of turning off lights and locking the front door. I commit to turning off lights when leaving a room and locking the front door when I leave. If my house and/or room has additional a/c units, I agree to only run it while I am present and to use it sparingly. I understand to not do so, may result in the unit being uninstalled.
FINE: $5/for lights. $30/unlocked door $15/a/c unit left on
16. I understand, consent to, and acknowledge that cameras are present in the common area of the home.
I understand that any tampering with the cameras in any way is me choosing to leave AOHSH.
17. In an effort to support a family-like atmosphere, each house in the AOHSH program has a weekly House Meeting. This meeting will allow all residents to review current guidelines and make suggestions for change. House Meetings are also an opportunity for individuals to learn about areas to grow in responsibility at AOHSH.
I understand that these meetings are not optional and that I will exhaust every option with my employer and schedule to attend. I understand that if I am on an overnight, I must return in time for the house meeting unless previously arranged and approved by management.
I agree to attend this weekly House Meeting to strengthen my sense of community and connection at AOHSH. I acknowledge and understand that AOHSH may have other mandatory functions outside of House Meetings. I understand that I will be given plenty of notice of these functions so that I may arrange my schedule to attend.
If I choose not to attend House Meetings and/or mandatory functions, I understand that I am making a decision to leave AOHSH.
FINE: $10/being late to meeting $20/missed meeting
18. I understand that the AOHSH Weekly Feedback is due at the beginning of our house meeting. I commit to using the notebook provided to write out my answers each week.I understand that this exercise is to strengthen my recovery and is to benefit my personal growth.
FINE: $5/not completing weekly feedback form
19. This recovery housing opportunity provides random drug screening as a service to all residents. I agree to participate in this service as a part of my recovery. I understand that these tests can happen without notice and with or without cause or explanation.I understand that failure to test will be considered a positive test and that I am making a decision to leave if I do not test. I understand that if I fail to test within one hour of a request, this too, will be considered an automatic positive result.
I understand that if I am found to be intoxicated or fail a drug test, I may be given the opportunity to go to detox or a 72 hour dismissal. I understand that a “72” is not automatic and/or a given. I understand a “72” is considered when a resident is honest about their drug/alcohol use and takes responsibility for their actions. If you have drugs or alcohol in the house, you are not eligible for a 72 due to the nature of your use. If you are over 1 week behind on Program Fees, you are not eligible for a 72. This is not a free pass to get drunk or high. Discretion is high in approving a “72”. I understand that the opportunity for detox and/or a “72” is solely at the discretion of management.
I understand that if I am immediately discharged from the program, I will be supervised and given 45 minutes to remove ALL items I can carry immediately. Upon immediate discharge, AOHSH will hold all items for up to 3 days. I understand that ANY items not claimed after 3 days will become the property of AOHSH. Anchor will not be responsible for holding, storing property beyond 3 days.
I understand that in the event I am allowed a “72” - I must return at the agreed upon day and time and PASS a drug screen for re-entry. I understand that fees and fines must be current in order to be eligible for a 72 hour dismissal and to re-enter the home.
20. Overnight Passes are an opportunity and privilege granted as I grow in my recovery. I understand that when I achieve 31 days, working a successful program, have my area clean, assigned chore(s) completed, have attended my required meetings, and have my dues current, I will be granted 2 overnight passes per week.
I understand that overnight requests must be submitted at least 24 hours in advance.In order to request an overnight, I commit to starting a group text with myself, my house manager, and my director requesting the day(s). I understand that same day requests will not be approved.
I understand that a 72 hour leave due to drug or alcohol use restarts the 30 day waiting period for overnights.
21. I understand that the program fees are as follows:
Entry Fee: $265 - this covers 1 week of program fees and is non-refundable.
Program fees: $165/weekly or $660/monthly
Fee due dates: 1st, 8th, 15th, and 22nd of each month. (Program fees paid on the 22nd cover the remaining days of the month for however many days that are left.)
In the event that a resident is discharged due to a failed drug screen or admission of use, any program fees paid for that week are forfeited. Any program fees paid in addition to the current week will be refunded.
Weeks Run: 1st - 7th, 8th - 15th, 16th - 22nd, 23rd - end of month. These are listed specifically for clarity and transparency.
Preferred methods of payment:
Venmo (please add $5 for transaction fee), CashApp (please add $5 for transaction fee), Zelle (no transaction fee), Chime (no transaction fee), ApplePay (no transaction fee).
I understand that AOHSH requires a 1-week notification if I plan to leave the program. I understand that not providing a 1-week notification is me relinquishing any and all monies paid to the program. If I do provide an approved 1-week notification, any program fees paid ahead of the current week will be refunded within 10 business days. I understand that AOHSH does not provide any prorated refunds for the current week.
22. I understand that if I owe more that $165 in fees, I will not be approved for overnights, I will not be allowed to go to 10pm meetings and I must get with the Executive Director to create a payment plan.I understand that once I am on a payment plan, inability to follow the payment plan is my choosing to leave AOHSH. I further understand that if my balance reaches $480 I am choosing to leave AOHSH.
23. I understand that Recovery is a spiritual program. Anchor of Hope honors the value of a relationship with God and encourages attendance to any Church of your choosing. Bible Study, Sunday School and Church services will count towards your required meetings as well help build the spiritual foundation we believe is required for recovery. We encourage you to reach out to Executive Directors directly with any questions pertaining to faith or church home. We have a relationship with many in this area.
24. I understand that each house has its own parking policy, per neighborhood ordinance. If I have a vehicle, I agree to abide by the policy my house sets forth. I also agree to basic driveways, to not park on grassy areas, to not park in emergency/fire zones, to not park in areas marked “No Parking”. I understand that by not following the rules of parking, I am choosing to leave the program.
25. I understand that participants are encouraged to stay as long as they feel necessary to adequately build their foundation in recovery. We are not a “phased” program, so the rules remain constant at all lengths of stay. Alumni in good standing are always welcome at AOH functions.
26. I understand that while I live at AOHSH, if I encounter any issues, there is a chain of common to be followed: 1st - Group Chat, 2nd - House Manager, 3rd - Program Director. I understand that if I have a grievance with the Program Director, I should contact an Executive Director.
Communication and honesty are essential parts of both recovery and everyday life. One of the best components of AOHSH is our ability to individualize care. We are more than willing to work with people in most situations.However, we need to be made aware of these situations - it is your responsibility to inform us. We are available 24/7. Feel free to reach out to any staff at any time.
Thank you for being the best part of Anchor.
Josh Bone - Executive Director 704.912.8072
Jennifer Arena - Executive Director 919.360.1611
Cory Petty - Executive Director 980.429.5515
Nicole Young - Admissions Director 720.625.2747
David Lancaster - Men’s Director 704.241.4977
Charles O’Dell - Men’s Director 980.339.2299
I __________________________ have read and understand the requirements and expectations of Anchor of Hope Sober Homes. I agree to uphold the values and principles of living a sober life and representing this program. I agree to comply and adhere to the rules and guidelines of being a resident at Anchor of Hope Sober Homes.
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